I don't know what is it with me that some people tend to pass judgement without really getting to know me. Is it because of the way I talk? Is it the way I deliver what I say? My choice of words? Is it the way I walk? My resting bitch face? I know that we really can't please everybody, but am I just too awful to be around? I really, really try to be as thoughtful, careful and reserved as I can be, but I am just naturally loud, carefree and I guess, a little obnoxious.